Because this forum has to do with relationships we are finding that people are posting their partners even though they're not cheaters. We have gotten over 30 submissions of people who won't commit, some who travel too much for work and even some complaining about their over-flirty partners but none of these profiles had any evidence of actual cheating.
We didn't want to just delete these profiles with a cold email that said, "Sorry but the profile you posted didn't have sufficient evidence that they cheated" so we sent out some heartfelt emails inquiring as to why they outed their non-cheating partners. You would be astounded as to the responses. First, none of the replies were less than 500 words. Doesn't sound like a lot? At the end of this sentence will only be 134 words. Second, it was clear that they were trying to get their loved one's attention.
FINALLY. People are starting to understand what this site is all about. Communication. Everyone that we emailed and even spoke to were so desperate to have these conversations face to face with their partners but found that this might be the best way to START that discussion. One man said, "We read about Cheater Registry this morning together at breakfast and had a brief non-cheating discussion but at the conclusion she walked out the door for a three day business trip. In the beginning of the relationship I would use those three days to go out with the boys but now they all have families too and I just miss her when she's gone."
He is planning to have a heart to heart with her about trying to cut back on all the travel when she returns. I wish him (and ALL of you) the very best!!